It’s a great question right now. Listen, I’m an experienced agent and this market scares ME sometimes. The speed is unfathomable and the effect is like that of being on a tricycle on one wheel speeding downhill. There’s no time to think. When my clients ask me whether it is a good idea to wait, I’m torn. Part of me thinks waiting would make sense, because rushing toward anything but ice cream doesn’t thrill me. But then reality sets in and I think rushing isn’t so bad. Here’s why.
First, as we have already seen…are already SEEING, because the trend forming now…interest rates are going up. In this competitive bid market, every dollar counts when you are trying to win the day, and every uptick in interest rate lowers your home search price. Every drop in home price means you have MANY more competitors. Homes below 400K are getting hard to find, at least the ones without ‘issues’, in many cases. And if YOUR price point dropped, so did that of your competitors, so the race will be more fierce.
For my clients, I advise them to make the financial adjustments that will allow them to stay in the hunt, to take advantage of low interest rates. I’m not a financial person, not an accountant, not (thank goodness) a wall street employee, but I think we are heading for an economic correction like we have never seen in our lifetime.
I don’t think we’re heading for a “real estate crash”. Not even close. Demand is too high and supply is too low for that situation to occur. No, I think inflation is going to bite us big, I just don’t know when. Common sense tells me we’re heading that way, and filling my car with gas confirms my assumption. I’m not an accountant either, but I do know you can’t buy a dollar’s worth of anything with a dollar that is now worth 40 cents.
Then we have rising prices for everything from food to gas, and we have supply shortage of everything from PET FOOD to cars. When this shoe drops, it’s gonna hurt. So waiting is actually a bad idea.
Most of my clients are not moving for the fun of it; they are moving because of a need to position themselves for the future, whether it be for the next leg of the journey or for settling into the end of their journey. So the need is there; that’s not going to change. So what I am saying is this:
Go ahead. Don’t wait.
And I know I beat this one into the ground, but hire an experienced real estate agent. This is a brand new market/economic condition which CAN be navigated effectively, but your agent must know what all of the moving parts ARE and how they bump into one another and change things. Your agent MUST know how to protect you in this unprecedented, fluctuating, expensive market.
Speaking of pet food shortage: Mess with my pets and we’re going to have problems. But it seems that’s also happening.
Hello again! As you know, if you’ve read my posts, not all of them have to do with real estate directly. My goal in part is to let people get to know me before they call on me. If you don’t like what I say or how I say it, then you may not want to work with me, and that’s okay. That’s exactly what I am going for here. Not everybody likes everybody.
So I was watching Youtube this morning, as I always do while having my coffee, and I saw a surprising title. I assumed the video would be quite different from what it actually was….of course. But it got me to thinking about forgiveness. Universally, that’s been on my mind quite a bit lately anyway, a message to ponder: What happened to forgiveness?
This Youtube video was about yet another person ‘resigning’ his post, because he made a mistake. Well, as you may know, my REAL job, the one I was passionate about, was science. In science, the goal is ‘truth’. And oh my goodness, can you even guess how many mistakes you make on that journey? You plan the approach you want to use to get where you think you want to go, and then you start out designing the steps, the items or chemicals you use, the timing of valve changes, the temperatures…ALL of that, and then you go. And you mess up, and you go back and figure out why and you tweak the process. And you go again. Now I’m not talking about recipe followers; I’m talking about the ones who develop processes or invent the tools you want to use. It’s a process of mistakes, restarts, more mistakes, and eventually, success. Look at that pipette in your hand. Think about how hard it was to get that right. Think about how many times the inventor had to tweak the invention process.
You know, that process often involves using the same old tired process (or tool), until you stop one day, put your hands on your hips and say, “There’s gotta be a better way.” That was the first step in my invention of a wonderful bit of lab equipment that not only made my life easier, but also saved my company a lot of money. It involved the use of ultra high purity helium. Wanna take a guess how much that costs? Well the old tired process wasted that product and I could see dollars going into the air. Ridiculous. I drew the equipment idea on a napkin the first time, and then I thought it through, made changes, etc., and it was eventually sold in the manufacturer’s catalog. But it wasn’t perfect when I drew it on the napkin. I had to start somewhere and go from there. And I didn’t demand the resignation of the first designer of that wasteful system.
The point is, nobody on this earth, or even in this universe, is perfect, folks. People goof up, and that’s normal. It’s a part of the growth process, the learning process. Yes, in some cases you don’t want to experiment. Think doctors. But still, ask me if I know of any doctors who made a mistake. Yep. Sure do. Even in life and death situations. They were not asked to resign, by the way.
Let’s think about this. You know about the Dyson vacuum products, right? Over FIVE THOUSAND failures before it was right. Now, everybody loves Dyson products. What if the inventor had given up or worse, been forced to ‘resign’. Walt Disney was fired from a job because he lacked imagination. I’m laughing at that one. What if he had been vilified? Henry Ford was bankrupted before he came up with the iconic Ford product. What happened to believing in people, even when they show their humanity? And think about this: There was no podium of shame where people announced their resignation. I’m kinda tired of seeing that. This idea of public humiliation for being human is barbaric, unintelligent behavior, and just plain stupid.
Look, this OMG YOU MADE A MISTAKE YOU’VE GOT TO RESIGN OR BE FIRED culture is just ridiculous. How did we become ultimate judges and jurors for others’ imperfections when WE are imperfect? How did this behavior become acceptable? Whom do we think we are anyway? One of the worst things one can do to another is judge them without all of the data. Why? Because you will ALWAYS view that person through the lens of YOU. I find that almost all people label others through themselves, without studying that person as THAT PERSON, with their heart, their brain, their spirit. Image someone into ‘extreme sports’ judging a librarian. Well the librarian is gonna RESIGN. Nobody else is you except you. So…stop being so harshly judgmental. You’re getting it wrong. You just are.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean we give that person permission to wreak (yes, not wreck) havoc on the world. It means we understand that success is a process. It’s going to have failures that teach us something. Here’s a good quote, I think from Henry Ford: “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.” Implication: You keep going.
Here’s what Maya Angelou said: “You will face many defeats in life, but never let yourself be defeated.” Implication: Don’t give up and don’t take it to mean YOU are broken. Life is imperfect in and of itself; how can the players in it be perfect? We cannot. So stop acting like we can.
This idea of mistakes being the end of us has become so ingrained in our pea brains that we RUSH to the podium to resign. No, to apologize and resign. I haven’t reached the day I will apologize for being human. I’ll say I’m sorry for the mistake, but you will not see me looking downtrodden and guilty for being a human being. Yeah, there are times when something comes to light that makes a person worthy of being fired, but that’s not usually an attempt to be successful. That’s usually a character flaw on a grand scale. That’s not what I’m talking about. You can take this to the bank: If I choose to do something, anything, on purpose, you can bet your last buck that I’m doing the best I can to be successful at it. So don’t even think about coming at me. And I think that’s how most people are. I don’t know anyone who sets out to screw up. Nobody seeks to fail.
We live in an age where ‘tolerance’ is preached, screamed from the mountaintops. But that usually means YOU tolerate ME. I think that’s the death of forgiveness. It stems from rabid judgement, an activity which none of us has the right to do. So I think we should look at the Youtube video title, have our little judging reaction, and then investigate. Find out the facts, which by the way will always lead you to other sources if you are fair minded.
I remember the song/mantra, “Give peace a chance”. Well peace often involves being less harshly judgmental and looking at the whole picture, rather than the part you didn’t agree with. And forgiveness is a choice; it doesn’t always feel good and it’s definitely not instant. The forgiveness part is easy, you just choose to DO it, and then you work through the emotions while you watch to see whether or not the same behavior pops up again. If it does, that changes things. But remember Dyson failed over FIVE THOUSAND times before he made your life easier. And think about this: How can a group of people ever reach consensus if a line is drawn in the sand right away? They cannot. This type of behavior creates tribal behavior which then leads to win/lose.
Yeah, this has to do with forgiveness. Less harsh judgement. Understanding that not everyone is like you, thank God. We are unique beings, also thank God. I don’t even want to think how life would be if everybody was just like everybody else. Remember forgiving others is a choice, not a way to make you feel better. And forcing someone out if his/her job because of a mistake is throwing us back to cave times.
Settle down people! hahaha. That’s what my father used to say to us when we got rowdy: SETTLE DOWN!
There’s always something to make us go “hmmmm”. These days, watching the news makes me hide in my closet. This is going up, this is going down, debt ceiling is being raised beyond sight, no it’s not, yes it is. OMG America is running out of food, building supplies, clothes are getting so thin you can see through them because fabric is so expensive (that’s funny, isn’t it?). Stock market is going up, it’s going down, buy, sell. Interest rates are going up….are they? Yesterday this house was active, now it’s pending. Why did the price go up? Are they really stabilizing?? I thought I saw some go DOWN in price. I can’t keep up.
So let’s just assume we are going into uncharted territory yet AGAIN, and put on our thinking caps. Why?Because there’s not a doggone thing we can do about the financial ‘climate’, but we can absolutely navigate it. Listen, I have stocks, and I’m not selling. I’m buying, in fact. But I do look at analysts’ reports as a guide. These reports are educated guesses, right? But there are a couple I trust and they are my true north on the rare occasions my charts don’t guide me exclusively. Yep, I’m a chart person. Don’t really need to know what the stock is; I just look at the chart and go from there. It works, too.
But REAL ESTATE, I sigh. Okay there are some charts you can use, a lot of them in fact. But listen, these days you also HAVE TO HAVE A STRATEGY, a strong one. It becomes more and more complicated as the weeks go by, and you MUST have an agent who understands ALL of the moving parts and how they fit together or bump against each other; and your agent HAS TO KNOW how to maximize your financial asset goals in light of these influences. In other words, better grab some experience, folks; this is serious business. And you’d better put on the big person (can’t say girl anymore) panties and learn how to handle some risk. That’s just plain fact. If you don’t have the stomach for it, then wait it out. But waiting it out? The real estate train is going to leave you in dust and diesel fumes, ladies and gentlemen. You get the point.
So your agent should ask you: “What is your financial strategy?” Now listen, we are not accountants, but if your goal is to buy a cheap house and flip it, that’s WAY different than finding the most house you can buy so you can stay there until you die. There was probably a better way to say that, but you get the idea. Still, and regardless, your agent SHOULD KNOW what you really aim for financially, with respect to this real estate transaction. And by the way, a good agent can give you some good recommendations for lenders BASED on these goals. It’s a good hand-off between strategists and guess what? You need that. It’s called experience and depth of bench in the career. Ya gotta have connections.
The thing about uncertainty financially is that we are, I believe, at a critical point in real estate (oh yes, AGAIN). If you are trying to buy and can’t find your price point house, then I strongly recommend adjusting your ‘requirements’ or your ‘dreams’. Why? Because there isn’t time for a stroll through the homes for sale. Remember the dust and diesel fumes? I think we may soon see some inflationary effects, and that will effect your interest rate, your price point, whether or not you have a screened porch AND a patio and fire pit…you get the idea. Don’t ever forget that real estate, now more than ever, is in flux. Don’t nail down ANYTHING. Keep your options and your mind open. Every day is the time to review your strategy to make sure it still make sense. Your agent should be driving that effort, by the way. And if this makes you feel better about ‘flux’, almost ALL buyers end up with a house that was NOTHING like what they first tell us to search for. NOTHING. The best clients actually realize and laugh about that once they find their home.
I have always worked 24/7, and that’s really a good thing for you. I wake up at 3 am, thinking about your house. Really, I do. And IF you have been straight with me about your strategy and your financial goals, then I had BETTER be thinking about your transaction 24/7. It’s that complicated. If we viewed real estate transactions BEFORE as a train running on the rails, rumbling along, now, it’s a bullet train and the cars are bumping together as they fly down the tracks. People are using your due diligence money as THEIR due diligence on the home they want to buy while you buy THEIRS. So if one falls through…I can’t bear to think about it. The housing shortage rages on; therefore, so does desperation among would-be buyers. This doesn’t have to spell disaster; it just means your agent has more and more COMPLICATED work to do. Remember when I wrote about creative problem solving? Well it’s not just a good idea anymore. It is MANDATORY.
And ‘thinking outside the box’ is not the same thing as creative problem solving, folks. Creative problem solving involves integration of your STRATEGY into the process, and you must have one. If you talk to an agent who never says ‘strategy’, RUN. Or, take 10 grand out of your bank and throw it in the fire. Same result either way. Agents have to UNDERSTAND the world of transactions well enough to navigate you through the rapids, because that’s how it feels. And it feels like that because that’s how it IS.
I describe it as being like riding a tricycle up on one wheel. Now, it’s like riding a tricycle up on one wheel REALLY FAST. But the moment all three wheels are on the ground at once? It feels great.
So, in this uncertain economy, choose a wise and nimble agent who understands how to move quickly when things change and will TALK you through the initial pathway (it’ll change many times), be sure that agent knows what she’s talking about, and for goodness sake do these four things: 1) Choose your agent with care and intellect (not emotion); 2) Have a deep conversation about strategy and get that understanding well into your heart and mind; and 3) Put on those big person panties I talked about because you must expect some stress and be able to handle it; and 4) Do NOT ask your agent to reduce her fee for you, because you have NO IDEA of the value you are getting. None.
I’m a real estate agent, as you may know, and I love working with first time buyers. It doesn’t usually result in a big paycheck for me, but I get to work with some amazing people and be a part of a huge event in their lives. I consider it an honor to help them. But many of my first timers are sadly surprised by what they need to have in order to buy a home. Most think they can hop on Zillow, look at the estimated price, put that amount against their income and they’re good to go. But there’s WAY more to it than that. Downsizers, you are also running into sad surprise many times.
First, you MUST sit down with your lender and get pre-APPROVED. Listen, a pre-QUALIFICATION is not worth the paper it’s written on, assuming there’s paper somewhere in the process. So be careful about the online estimators. If I am your agent, I am going to want you to get face to face…yes, FACE TO FACE…with a lender, so they know whom you are, and so that they can be held accountable for making the deadlines to which you will contractually obligate yourself. This is critical. The lending process is fraught with potholes, and you need to be more than a number among hundreds of numbers. You need that lender to know your NAME and be able to put your face with it. And I will need to be able to verify/check on milestones as the process progresses. BUT…you must have a letter from the lender that goes WITH your offer to the seller. That’s the norm now.
And listen, the lender is GLAD you are there. They WANT your business. So go in asking what they can do for YOU today.
Next: It takes DISCRETIONARY cash up front. You have to pay for inspections and you have to put up due diligence money AND earnest money (usually), and these days you should count on 15K and up, depending on your price point. Now please listen to this. You will get all of that back when you close, but if you WALK AWAY, the seller gets to keep your due diligence money and that can start at 4% of purchase price on average. OMG where am I going to get that kind of money? Well you can be gifted quite a bit. But you’ll need to talk to that lender person, the one you’re looking in the EYES, about that.
When you find a house you like, these days, sellers don’t have to pay your CLOSING COSTS, they don’t have to buy you a WARRANTY, they don’t even have to do repairs. In other words, don’t look for a fixer upper unless you are a fixer and you have the money and skills already on board. The seller is not going to help you out. Why? There are 20 other offers on the table that won’t ask for it.
Be sure your agent knows about any class action lawsuits about construction that happened during the age of the house you seek, and ALWAYS look in the crawl space. Make sure your agent knows what red flags to look for while you are looking at the space and placing furniture in your mind.
Don’t change jobs. Don’t incur more debt. Your job history is SO important, and debt-to-income is critical. Spiff up your credit score, pay off as much debt as you can, and save, save save. Ya gotta have some cash if you want your offer to win out against the many others.
Buyers always have a list of must-haves, but also almost always veer WAY off of that list in the end. So my advice is to have an open mind, because…it’s going to end up that way.
Let me know if I can help you; call me if you want to just chat. And have a wonderful day!
The market is crazy everywhere, and I expect it will be until interest rates go way up, and/or until the supply of available homes catches up with demand. Honestly, I don’t see that happening any time soon. If it was a strictly economic issue, I’d think ‘crash’, and it seems like that should be looming. But as long as you have 100 homes and 10,000 buyers actively looking, the insanity will continue. Oh, and we have the national LLC’s stalking around buying up properties, turning our communities into rental communities. So you’re competing with corporate money too. Still, it’s all about supply and demand…in my opinion of course. You have to say that every time you open your mouth these days, even if the data bear out what you’re saying.
But here’s a good reason you should consult an experienced agent: If you think inside the box (that’s such an overused cliche), you will never have an offer accepted…unless you pay way too much over list price for the property. You have to think creatively. It doesn’t have to be all about the money, although let’s be clear, money IS important and expected in this market.
More and more, sellers are asking for a lease-back period AFTER closing. Why? Because they are now also facing a housing shortage within which there’s a stampede toward every house on the market. Think about it: They can’t line up something to move TO while they market their existing home, because by the time they get their house sold to you, the one they want to go TO has sold three times (I’m exaggerating). But you get the picture. The seller can use your due diligence money to pay THEIR due diligence, but only if you give them some lease-back time to find a home, get their offer accepted, and get it under contract in the midst of the frenzy. Two months is short time for all of that, really.
Buyers, this is a big risk. You’ll be closing on your home you’ve sweated blood to buy, and now you’re going to let the ex-sellers stay there for potentially months. So be sure they get renters insurance. And make sure the appropriate paperwork is recorded, detailing the terms of the lease-back, including how you will handle any damage they do to the property when they move. Yes, you can charge them rent, OR you can use some ‘free’ time or cheap time as leverage to encourage the seller to pick YOUR offer above the twenty others. And, just so the wrench goes right into the gears, what if that ex-seller-now-buyer has to allow THEIR sellers to camp out for two months for THEIR lease back? Risk. Better know your limits because it could get complicated. And you’d better have a good real estate agent who understands the pitfalls.
Times are complicated in real estate. Market values are going up and up, because each time a home sells above what we call the ‘true value’, that home becomes a comp for other homes coming on the market. I doubt there’s been a time when home values have gone so high, so fast. In any case, current real estate transactions should be a team effort, with the principals and agents putting their heads together to figure out how to make the most of today’s market.
It doesn’t always have to mean paying out far too much cash; it could be a matter of communication between the agents to find out what the other party wishes for or needs. Trust me, everyone is stressed out in this market, and I think an act of kindness could go far. Nobody expects that anymore, but it’s not always about the money. Let the seller breathe a little bit if you can afford to, and sellers, if you NEED that contingency, tell your listing agent to publicize that in agent remarks. Buyers don’t always like this idea of leasing back their newly purchased home, and that’s okay! But it’s on the table more and more, so it has to be acknowledged.
The overarching theme here is that you need to have an agent (who is an advisor, right?) who understands the moving parts, how they work, and how one impacts the other. That comes with experience and creative problem solving skills. And trust me, not everyone has that talent. Vet the ones you want to hire to represent you; be sure that person can explain how things work and be sure they are a team player, not a dictator. It is unethical and actually dangerous, for real estate agents to tell you what to do. You, buyer or seller, are the boss. So BE involved, pay attention, and think outside the box.
And let me just add another couple of thoughts. IF you have a seasoned agent, one who knows the market and understands the moving parts, LISTEN to the agent’s advice. For example, if you have over leveraged your property, you cannot expect a buyer to pay for that. It is THE MARKET that will determine your property value, and if you have borrowed too much against your house, no way the market can cover that in most cases. Buyers are not dumb. When I worked for a builder just before the crash in 08, I distinctly remember one of the big guys saying, “We’re just going to ignore the economy and keep on selling houses.” I almost fell out of my chair over that one. Well waiting for a buyer to pay astronomically more for your property than it is worth to pay off all of your debt, makes about the same amount of sense: none. Oh, and just so you know, the good agents can see that from a mile away. Trust me on that one.
And at last, remember that your real estate agent is bound by law to protect your privacy. So be up front about your goals, what you want and WHY you want it. Don’t make the agent figure out, for example, if you’re over leveraged. Be up front about that so she/he can work on that problem with you. We do love a challenge, after all.
And good luck. Listen, it’s tough out here in the world of real estate, but you are all grown up and are now buying or selling property! Please adjust your expectations so that you are not terribly shocked by the market, and believe that your agent has ‘got this’ as we say. Breathe.
I just found a Youtube video honoring Jeannie Robertson, and I was mortified. She died, or ‘passed’ as she would say, and I had no idea. It’s too soon; she needs to be here a lot longer. She just can’t be gone. “NO!”, I said. No.
I loved her humor, loved how funny she was without ever uttering foul language or putting anyone down with vicious gossip. She talked about everyday life…with a little twist…and she was hilariously believable, friendly, approachable.
I cried during her online service and then I went to her Youtube channel and subscribed so her videos would pop up in my feed. One of her funniest was “Never Send a Man to the Grocery Store”. I watched it again. I knew the bit, but I watched it anyway, and laughed and laughed. Even after death, she brings humor to a bleak world and made me laugh through my tears.
She affectionately referred to her husband as “Left Brain”, because he was an engineer with a PhD. Analytical and literal in many ways, I suppose. They are both gone now, and the world is a sadder place; but Heaven is brighter.
If you haven’t seen the grocery store bit, really, you need to watch it. You’ll laugh, but don’t forget to notice the wonderful woman who tells the story. She was amazing. And Left Brain was always there at her performances, laughing right along with everyone else. He left us in June.
Death is a terrible thing, circulating among us as it does, taking our favorite people from us, reminding us of the ‘circle of life’. I miss the ones who have left this place, gone on to the next dimension. I really miss them. And it doesn’t seem like a ‘circle of life’ at all. Then I remember that we are all made of energy, which goes on somewhere, and we don’t end. I don’t feel much better right now, but I will. Heaven, or whatever name you give it, is real, and there are some fine people there.
Watch Jeannie’s videos. If you’ve never seen her before, you’ll be sorry you missed her in life. But fortunately we have her on audio and video. Fortunately she is here in those ways for as long as we are here and longer.
Let me share a secret with you about cabinet doors. Are you excited yet? You should be. I found this company when I was frustrated with my kitchen cabinets and lamenting about the cost of getting new cabinets installed. Well you gotta love Google. I found https://www.cabinetdoorworld.com. Instead of the WHOLE cabinet replacement, I replaced the doors, for WAAAAY less than you would think. I got solid wood, painted the color I wanted (a perfect match). And I got soft close hinges that upgraded what I had before…AND…they fit perfectly, right into the slots for the other hinges. WOW what a difference.
Now this company does a big variety of door styles and colors/stains, so I am willing to bet you can find what you need. SO…if you want to spiff up your kitchen for low bucks to garner high bucks on your sale? Go online and check out Cabinet Door World. In fact, I have two new doors for my bathroom vanity right now, waiting for me to install them. WITH soft close hinges. The cost was minimal and the return on investment will be great.
Good grammar and spelling in America are disappearing from the landscape. (ARE, not is) So what? Well, if you apply for a job and I review your resume, if I see blatant spelling and grammar errors, your resume goes right in the trash. Period. If a person can’t be bothered to learn BASIC spelling and grammar…or use the computer THEY’RE USING to look them up…they must be a lazy individual, or clueless. Notice the word is ‘they’re’ not ‘there’, for God’s sake. Either way, that’s not somebody I’d hire.
Try debating me online using those kinds of errors. I’m done. You’re no intellectual, nor even just a pretty smart person with a point to ponder. Nope. I win the debate. If you don’t care enough about your discourse to learn how to organize and display it correctly in writing, you’re lazy. (YOU’RE, not your).
I see it all the time: Your the greatest! NO!! It is YOU’RE the greatest. Have you never read ANYTHING in your life? And here’s one: It’s to hot. That’s supposed to be TOO hot. TOO TOO TOO. This is not rocket science, folks. And by the way, MY computer underlines the incorrect grammar, ALERTING me that what I typed is incorrect. How lazy do you have to be to overlook that little reminder? Or maybe you’re just apathetic, another great quality.
I watch Youtube videos on TV instead of cable or antenna TV. I enjoy seeing comments other viewers type in, because there are some very good insights and ideas out there, and some are just hilarious. There are some natural comedians out there. But when I see lazy use of language, I just assume it was a smooth-brain typing it.
Bottom line is this: If you want to be taken seriously, especially in business or a debate, use a grammar checker or spell checker. Hey, here’s an idea: Use both! If this kind of thing were difficult, or rocket science, I’d understand; but this is BASIC spelling and grammar. BASIC! America is already a laughingstock in the world, justified in part by this kind of thing. Have a little self respect. I know; that’s dying off, too. TOO, NOT TO.
Now. If I were reading this, I’d be looking into the words I mentioned, to be sure I understood. Yeah, that’s a dying art as well.
These are tough time in real estate. It’s a frenzy, and if you are the type of person who needs time to digest, I feel sorry for you. I am that type of person as well, and to be rushed feels threatening. But today, the ‘herd’ is thundering towards each home listed for sale.
So, two things: 1) Be prepared to step outside your comfort zone in a big way (or you will never get a home); and 2) Please don’t blame the rotation of the earth on your real estate agent. We don’t like this market either. Not one bit.
I saw a Youtube video, a young guy ranting and raving about his real estate experience. Mostly he was badgering the buyer agent, WHOM HE DID NOT PAY A DIME. He ranted about how the agent called to let him know a good home had just come on the market, and he rudely replied that, “NO I can’t go look at the house, I HAVE A JOB!” Not realizing that the agent WHOM HE DID NOT PAY A DIME also has one that doesn’t end at 5 pm nor start at 8 am. The real estate agent, WHOM HE DID NOT PAY A DIME, works 24/7, often for brats who don’t have a clue what real estate agents do, how hard we work, how much we try to satisfy the needs of buyers who don’t appreciate us, or even realize that THEY DON’T PAY US A DIME.
He further ranted that when he DID decide to stoop to look at the house, the agent, WHOM HE DID NOT PAY A DIME, told him the house was under contract. Well I WONDER how many times the buyer agent told this child that the market is HOT and there’s no time to goof around. You snooze, you lose. If YOU have on your big boy panties and think you’re tough enough to buy a house, then you need to do what it takes to pull it off. Whining does no good to anyone.
Then, the spoiled brad made fun of the buyer agent, WHOM HE DID NOT PAY A DIME, because he got a GIFT, from someone he disrespected, made fun of and…youuuu guessed it…DID NOT PAY A DIME.
So listen up: That agent did not HAVE to give you squat. The SELLER paid her salary, you DID NOT PAY A DIME. Furthermore, that big salary you think she got? Pay ATTENTION NOW, that commission amount is for BOTH COMPANIES. How many times can I say this? COMPANIES. The agents, who drive you around, keep watch for your special needs, wake up at the crack of dawn to check the market, callS you to find out if you’re in the MOOD to look at a house, takes care of all of the details, keeps you informed, spends her/his money to take care of you, gets NOT ONE DIME from you. And the commission you are jealous about? That goes to the COMPANIES, paid by the SELLER, not you. Your agent, whom you did not deserve, based on your own behavior preserved on video made much much less than your small brain can imagine.
Did YOU thank her? Did YOU GIVE HER A THANK YOU GIFT? No, you didn’t. Do do me a favor. Sit down and shut up.
And answer this for me? 1) Whooooo pays commissions? 2)Whoooo gets the commissions? That’s right 1) not you; 2) THE COMPANIES.
I feel better now. It’s Sunday, and I’m off to work. What are YOU doing?
brendabriggsrealtor 